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The HOW and WHEN no longer matter!

Always fascinating yet never a surprise! When you awaken to your creation and realize you’ve attracted into your life what you wanted, it’s never a surprise because you’ve been the designer in this creation and very familiar with the commitment process to see it through. It’s taken your unwavering belief, persistence, patience and loads of love. As Kevin Trudeau explains in his audio series “Your Wish is Your Command”, care, but not too much. What he means is Believe what you want is showing up in your life, be passionate and excited about this knowing, have a clear vision, yet be relaxed and not attached to the HOW and WHEN your desires are going to show up. The HOW and WHEN don’t matter because when you truly Believe it to be so, IT IS SO. Choose to live your life in complete confidence, all knowing. The energy and frequency you vibrate makes it so. As a personal example, if the man or women of your dreams appears to be presenting themselves and showing up – GREAT! If they are not at your side yet, or the one who is at your side doesn’t FEEL right, and you are not sure it ever will, there is clearly some uncertainty. In fact, you are wavering in your Belief and any amount of wavering is doubt. DOUBT will not bring your dreams to fruition…at least not for a very long time and likely in bits and pieces. What is preferable is to maintain your wishes and KNOW that your desires will be met.  Relinquish the HOW it’s going to happen and the WHEN. Aim...

Guest Blog: Leverage Time and Connections & Reduce Stress

Recently I become a Connector in a student career program sponsored by my local Chamber of Commerce.   One of the obligations I have as a Connector is to meet with ‘my student’ to discuss business and to refer two people in my network who will agree to also have a conversation.  This offers an excellent opportunity for the student to grow their own network. As a business owner, are you attending networking events?  Are you making the most of these events? If not, you are missing out and it is costing you time, money and sales!  Networking is a major time commitment and it offers a fabulous opportunity to build upon and expand your network.  You never know who you will meet, or who they know. Do Networking Events Cause You Stress? For many years, I used to become physically ill on my way to business meetings.  Sometimes I even drove all the way to the event only to turn around and go home too anxious to walk inside.  Although I still face some anxiety before events, particularly when I do not know people at the event, I no longer become ill or walk away from the events. Instead I now embrace the opportunity to build my network and connect. Reduce the stress using these three tips: 1.  Set a goal. When you have a goal, you gain clarity and understand the purpose of your attendance.  Networking doesn’t mean selling.  Networking means establishing relationships.  At each event, commit to meeting and learning more about two or three good connections rather than just collecting business cards.  A good connection can...